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- Avoiding Danger
- Detaching From the Recipe
- Managing Grief
- Overcoming Disaster
- Overview
- Protecting Relationships
- Reducing Fear
Feeling Whole Can Detach You From Your Winning Recipe
You created your recipe to overcome a flaw. Take that shortcoming away and you short-circuit the recipe.
A Relationship You Honor Can Detach You From Your Winning Recipe
When you choose a treasured relationship over your recipe you will lessen from the recipe’s grip.
A New Context Can Detach You From Your Winning Recipe
Despite what your recipe says, you are an introvert. Declare that as your new context.
Listening Can Destabilize Your Winning Recipe And Defuse A Disaster
Listening to other people instead of to your recipe can help you extricate yourself from a disaster.
Possibility Can Dilute Your Winning Recipe And Counteract Disaster
Create the present moment not based on your winning recipe, but based on a compelling future.
Completions Can Weaken Your Winning Recipe And Offset Disaster
The answer to a disaster is not your recipe, but the constant completion of small, random tasks.
Opportunity Can Undercut Your Winning Recipe And Neutralize Disaster
In a calamity your recipe is too rigid to be of help. Instead, ask how you can use the disaster as an advantage.
Non-Resistance Outdoes Your Winning Recipe And Subdues Grief
Resisting grief only makes it persist. Giving up resistance it can make it slowly lessen.
Acceptance Outshines Your Winning Recipe And Handles Grief
Your recipe is no help in resolving grief. But accelerating your movement into acceptance can help a great deal.
Intention Surpasses Your Winning Recipe And Copes With Grief
What you get in life is what you intend. Instead of grieving for a lost future, intend a new one for yourself.
Responsibility Transcends Your Winning Recipe And Manages Grief
Grieving for a lost dream can make you feel like a victim. Being at cause in the matter can free you.
Insight Can Bypass Your Winning Recipe And Lessen Danger
Looking behind the scenes can keep you safe. But your recipe is not interested in having you do that.
Being Present Can Inhibit Your Winning Recipe And Reduce Danger
Focusing your mind on the present is hard. But it allows you to discover things that could be dangerous.
Curiosity Can Dull Your Winning Recipe And Sidestep Danger
You are focused on your inner world. But dangerous surprises could be hiding in plain sight.
The Truth Can Skirt Your Winning Recipe And Avoid Danger
A little voice will likely tell you when your winning recipe is leading you down the wrong path. Listen to it.
A New Context Can Neutralize Your Winning Recipe And Decrease Fear
You are not your winning recipe. You are its observer, and that gives you some leverage over it.
A Unified Awareness Can Defuse Your Winning Recipe And Diminish Fear
Your winning recipe keeps you dangerously focused on your internal world. The external world matters too.
A Trusted Person Can Counteract Your Winning Recipe and Reduce Fear
When your winning recipe runs wild in the face of fear someone you trust can interrupt the cycle.
Meanings You Create Can Offset Your Winning Recipe And Lessen Fear
The meaning you assign to a situation drives your fear about it. Going beyond your winning recipe can help.
The Reliability Issue In Your Winning Recipe – How To Shrink Its Power
A crisis can drive you so deeply into your winning recipe that it may make you seem fickle as a partner.
The Authenticity Issue In Your Winning Recipe – How To Lower Its Effect
The only way you can be authentic with another person is to consciously step outside of your winning recipe.
The Focus Issue In Your Winning Recipe – How To Reduce Its Impact
Your winning recipe and relationships do not mix well. But you can get your recipe to quiet down.
The Inner Controls Of Your Winning Recipe – How To Lay Them Bare
Every winning recipe has three moving parts. Knowing what they are gives you access to their controls.
How To Discover The Incident That Likely Triggered Your Winning Recipe
You created your recipe when you were perhaps under five years of age. It helps to know what sparked it.
Every Introvert Has A Harmful “Winning Recipe.” Here Is What To Do.
Your winning recipe feels great. But over time it can be a highly unsatisfying way to live.